Thanksgiving

Well, today is the day that we are to reflect on those things that we are thankful for and, I must admit, that I have been dreading this reflection all month long.  Needless to say, 2011 has been just about the hardest year of my life - and I have had some pretty hard years recently!  But I realize today, as I try to do everyday, that I have 2 options: 1) to be bitter about the current circumstances or 2) to be thankful for all the blessings I have been given.  And, today, as I try to do everyday, I will be thankful!

I am thankful for...

• my Savior, Jesus Christ, and so many bible verses that have given me hope since I was saved 15 years ago;
• my precious children, Ian and Bonner, that have literally sustained me for the past 7 months;
• my parents who have supported me (and the children) throughout the insanity;
• my family that has listened to my rants and reminded me that God has me exactly where I am supposed to be;
• my friends and neighbors who have been there for me EVERY TIME I have called on them;
• my house which provides stability for the children;
• the school and teachers that provide consistency for the children;
• my counselor who has challenged me at every turn and been there for me through the craziest of times;
• my DivorceCare class - the people who have supported me and the lessons that have validated my thoughts, feelings, actions;
• my attorney who has talked me down off the wall more than once and represented me with much integrity; 
• a beautiful ocean and huge sky that remind me of God's vastness; and, 
• my wandering mind that doesn't let me dwell on anything for too long :-)

I pray that you will enjoy today with your families; that you will pray for those that are hurting, suffering, and grieving around you; and, that you will find ways and time to strengthen your marriage! Happy Thanksgiving!